Showing Real Support for Law Enforcement Means Condemning When One of Them Goes Rogue

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Having anti-police sentiment is too rampant in American society. All too often, the bad guys are awarded martyr status and the cops who rightfully take them down are condemned. We must support the law enforcement officers who are protecting us, but that means calling out when one of them commits a crime.

Blind support is not proper support. We must be unwavering in our support for law enforcement and that means not supporting those who do wrong. That seems to be the case in Chicago where a police officer shot a teen armed with a knife 16 times. The situation was tense but if there was a time when a stun gun was appropriate, this was it.

Dashcam video released this week shows that Laquan McDonald was armed and dangerous. He was walking around the streets with a weapon acting erratically after an alleged robbery. He needed to be stopped. He just didn’t need to be killed.

Charges have been filed and we won’t know the outcome until Chicago Police officer Jason Van Dyke has his day in court, but the initial response to the video seems to be righteous. It did not appear that McDonald was lunging or acting as a direct threat to anyone. He was clearly disobeying commands and should have been stunned.

We are completely supportive of law enforcement. We believe in and are grateful for their protection. When things go wrong and officers act criminally, we have to show our support through condemnation of heinous acts.

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What's The Real Price Of Technology?

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What's The Real Price Of Technology? | Social Media TodayI’ll never forget it.

The story that my friend told me about her daughter who came to her crying, disappointed after she’d found out that Santa Claus is not real. “She Googled it,” my friend said.

It’s inevitable, you might say, they’ll find out eventually. And that’s true, but how about other feelings that we – both children and adults – experience because of our introduction to the Internet a bit early, or because of our addiction to it? Anxiety, anger, depression…

We all, men, women, and children, spend huge amounts of time online every day. And if that’s not enough, according to a 2014 study by HR firm Randstad US, 42% of adults admit to checking their work emails while on holiday – a time that they should be spending disconnecting and relaxing.

Why is it so hard to switch off? Is it because it’s addictive? Is it because we don’t want to miss out on anything? Is it because we use social networks as a place to stroke our own egos?

Whatever the reason, there are repercussions to be aware of. Smartphone and computer use can cause a number of psychological issues:

There’s also the risk of a range of physical health issues such as:

Not to mention the sheer amount of time that could be spent doing something more productive or enjoyable. And the possible future regret and embarrassment of having shared those unflattering photos of yourself while drunk on holiday when, a few years later, you’re applying for jobs.

On our honeymoons and vacations, in an attempt to usurp the random posts of unflattering wedding shots or bragging about our trip to the beach, we spend hours of our precious time away from our spouses and children, choosing and posting our preferred photos into an online album.

There is a fashionable trend on the rise – to go “offline” altogether. Disconnect. Spend time with nature or in absolute quiet, thinking, creating, exercising.

Why is that?

Because we want our lives back. Because relationships need effort and time to make them work. Any relationship. Without exception. Those brought up on social networking can too easily become accustomed to the “disposable” attitudes of online dating and the modern consumer world, with potentially horrific implications for the future of families and partnerships, with terrible implications for the long-term health of our society. Implications to:

  • Creativity and imagination
  • Productivity
  • Innovation
  • Relationships
  • Mental and physical health of both adults and kids.

We need to take charge. We need to be present when our families are talking to us. We need to take time to go outside and explore with our children. We need to disconnect so that we could allow for our thoughts to flow freely and creatively, and so that we could come back to work with the renewed vigor and passion rather than indifference.

Let’s not allow our work consume us. To do that, we need to become more productive during our work hours, minimize the distractions. There are apps that can help us do just that, such as Anti-Social.

Let’s keep our children safe. Technology can be a source of great learning. But organizations like SafeSurf® andOnGuardOnline provide tools and information to help parents in their quest for their kids’ safety. But we ourselves need to be mindful about what information we post about our kids.

The FBI has a worrying list of the types of cyber-attacks on users of social networking sites, plus some helpful tips on how to not become a victim.

I’ll be the first one to admit that I am a technology addict. I am a social media marketer, it kinda’ comes with territory. I am also a workaholic, because I love what I do. It’s a consistent struggle to find the right balance. But over the past 5 years, while juggling projects, networks, friends and communities, I noticed that I’d developed a slight ADD. I’d gained weight. My sleep patterns were off. I’d somewhat neglected my daughter.

So I started to make changes, such as:

  • Family dinner together every night with our child (even if one of us is traveling)
  • No tech or toys at the dinner table (if the phone rings during dinner, we don’t pick it up)
  • No work between the hours of 6-8pm when my daughter is back from school and before her bed time
  • Giving my family an undivided attention during our family time
  • On the weekends spend time outside without technology (yes, without even a cell phone)
  • Play more board games
  • No technology in your bedroom (no cell, laptop, TV, nothing), it vastly improves sleep patterns

And that’s just basics. I’m still working on the right amount of time I spend with and without technology. And today I invite all of you to take the pledge to be mindful. To go screenless every now and then. To reclaim your lives. To keep us all sane and our relationships thriving.

Because it’s worth it

Because, when it’s all said and done, none of us will ever say on our deathbeds: “I wish I spent more time with my beloved technology.”

This post originally appeared on Ekaterina Walter’s blog

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